I’m really shy.
I know it’s hard to tell from a blog, but if we were meeting in person, I might not look directly into your eyes. And if more than three people were in the group, I probably wouldn’t talk at all.
That’s how I’ve been as I surf the internet, too. I guess I’d be called a lurker. I love to read people’s posts, but I don’t have much to say in response. Too scary. What if they think I’m a total dork?
Yesterday I stumbled onto a site by MotherReader encouraging bloggers to engage with each other by posting to five blogs every day for three weeks. I have to say, a month ago, I would not have been up to the challenge. But the longer I’m at this, the easier it gets. No one has mocked me yet (that I know of!) and I’ve actually “met” some incredible people online.
Earlier this year, Mary Hershey gave me some advice that I’ve taken to heart. Surround yourself with what you want to become. Get to know the community, learn from other writers. What I’ve found is that writers are a very supportive group. I’ve been overwhelmed and beautifully surprised.
I still get nervous posting to a new person’s blog, but I’ve also “talked” to some great people. People I would enjoy spending time with in real life.
I might even look into their eyes!